Sunday, 22 September 2019
Why WHY is so important
Why? Why? Why is WHY crucial?
Dear readers, have you ever asked yourselves why? There are so many reasons that make you here, and lead you to what you have been doing. Rarely do people ask themselves why, but frankly speaking, the mind itself asks. Have you ever tried so hard for success? Or you work flat out because you want to be rich, to be great, to be popular? And sometimes, we give up because of reasons. They are all in WHY.
1. WHY helps you start
Is learning a choice? I don't think so. And it is not an obligation either. We all study from grade 0 or 1 to grade 12, and some continue to pursue higher education like PHD, ect..
Why do they have to? Of course, they have their reasons or their WHYs. Their WHYs are their goals or dreams that they want to attain, for instance, making their parents proud are their purpose. Without WHYs we do not have to do many things, horny tasks.
2. WHY is a motivation
"Start with WHY" is what everyone tells you. Without WHY, will you fail?
Of course, it depends. I know working hard is as hard as the phrase itself. Some of you, including me, just want to surrender, but thanks to our WHYs we could be who we are today. Some have come so far from their first step, but they end up stopping due to their tiredness, their weaknesses and loss of inspiration. They will not give up, if they seek for their reasons, reasons why they started and reasons why they have to continue their difficult journeys.
3. WHY helps one grow
Life would have been simple and tedious, if people hadn't had WHYs. WHY makes us puzzled, which pushes us to seek. Once one seeks, one may find. Without WHY, people won't create many novel and worthwhile ideas or innovations to help the world. When we have WHY, we will strive for more because their are many WHYs we have to discover to solve our Ys.
Thursday, 4 July 2019
Why students stop loving school?
Education is indeed significant in one's life. Without it, life is nothing great.
Have you heard about a quote stating that "I love education but not school"?
School is, of course, a great place to learn. It is a place where students meet new people, learn new things, discover their dreams, and become educated.
But some people may not love it, according to my research, I've discovered many reasons why many students stop wanting to go to school.
1. Students themselves are lazy. Well, at this point, they should be reprimanded because it's not a school's fault or teachers'. When they are indolent, they tend to procrastinate with their work, their studies, and homework that is assigned to them. When they are not diligent, they usually skip classes because they are afraid to be chastised for not completing their tasks. They are scared to be condemned due to their laziness and recklessness.
2. Tutees cannot catch up with the lessons.
Have you ever experienced it?
Studying something that we find challenging to understand is monotonous. Take Maths as an example; most students skip their maths class because sometimes, they don 't understand it clearly. They are bored because of not being intelligent enough to master it, so they may give up attending class.
3. They are bullied.
It is complicated to be hurt by their classmates or friends. Negative remark hurts a lot.
It doesn't seem to be that serious, but in fact, it is. Some pupils feel frightened to show up for classes because they know they will be bullied again.
Bully comes in many forms, two of which are physical and emotional bully.
4. School is no longer a place to teach students, but a criterion to judge students' ability.
How painful is it to be inferred because of not being as excellent as others?
Most kids have to suffer this kind of suffering, which will forever affect their lives.
They are too immature to be judged. They are mostly new to learn all the things in this enormous world, why do you keep blaming them when they fail to be perfect?
Give them time, give them their lives to be free. There is no criterion to measure one's life, and of course, score cant either.
5. School is no longer a place to learn, but a field where they compete.
Competing with each other is a good sign in learning because it helps students boost their knowledge and keep growing day by day, but what about competing every day and time?
Of course, it becomes USELESS. Learning is no longer enjoyable. Students compete with one another with their quiz's score, exam's, practice test's and even their clothes, faces, mouth, WHATEVER.
When it is no longer fun to learn, nobody learns,
6. They no longer feel like home.
School is the second home. Although it is not a place where we can freely live, it is considered as students' house. But it doesn't mean a house can be our home. When we feel that we belong to it, we want to own and visit it, but when we no longer feel the same, our feeling for it will sooner or later subside like the smoke.
Dear keep learning. Keep growing.
Dear teachers, please understand this elucidation
Dear parents, stop using this criterion to judge your child's ability
Dear students, please work harder
Dear friends, stop competing, but please help one another instead.
Friday, 28 June 2019
How to make strangers your new friends?
In everyday life, we meet so many people. Wanting it or not, you can’t choose whether to meet them or not. Some people find it difficult to make new friends or to communicate with them. While some people make so many buddies, others feel so lonely because they are too shy or they don’t know any strategies or techniques. Here are some tips to connect with new people:
1. Smile
Everyone is born with a smile. Smiling is the best medicine to win anyone’s heart. However, people usually overlook at its value and benefit. Remember that people love it when others smile at them. They feel blessed and lighthearted. You don’t have to talk to them at first to make a perfect moment, just give them your genuine smile, which will help you win their hearts and earn their interest in you.
You may have to suffer a bit at first because some people may not give your a big smile back, but sooner or later, they will. Be patient !
2. Say Hello
Hello is not just a simple word, but it’s the first word that may result in something great.
Hello is a word we normally use to start a conversation. Imagine walking alone, then you meet a man who says Hello to you. It makes you feel that he wants to talk to you or makes friend with you.
You’d wish people to say hello to you too, so let be the first to say then you will get their attention.
3. Always start first
If you fell head over heel in love with your crush, would you wait her to confess her love to you first or would you b the first one?
Of course, it must be You. You need to start first. And it goes the same with this strategy.
Some people are shy just like you do, if both of you can’t talk, so the result may be completely different. So if you are the one to start, you make be able to make friends with new people easily.
Don’t think that it’s weird or it makes you invaluable to begin first because you might lose that chance to connect with strangers.
Enjoy making friends and connecting with new people..
It’s crucial to meet strangers and learn more from them.
Thanks
1. Smile
Everyone is born with a smile. Smiling is the best medicine to win anyone’s heart. However, people usually overlook at its value and benefit. Remember that people love it when others smile at them. They feel blessed and lighthearted. You don’t have to talk to them at first to make a perfect moment, just give them your genuine smile, which will help you win their hearts and earn their interest in you.
You may have to suffer a bit at first because some people may not give your a big smile back, but sooner or later, they will. Be patient !
2. Say Hello
Hello is not just a simple word, but it’s the first word that may result in something great.
Hello is a word we normally use to start a conversation. Imagine walking alone, then you meet a man who says Hello to you. It makes you feel that he wants to talk to you or makes friend with you.
You’d wish people to say hello to you too, so let be the first to say then you will get their attention.
3. Always start first
If you fell head over heel in love with your crush, would you wait her to confess her love to you first or would you b the first one?
Of course, it must be You. You need to start first. And it goes the same with this strategy.
Some people are shy just like you do, if both of you can’t talk, so the result may be completely different. So if you are the one to start, you make be able to make friends with new people easily.
Don’t think that it’s weird or it makes you invaluable to begin first because you might lose that chance to connect with strangers.
Enjoy making friends and connecting with new people..
It’s crucial to meet strangers and learn more from them.
Thanks
Thursday, 23 May 2019
How to be strong when you face problems?
How to be strong when you face problems?
Have you asked yourself this question?
Most of us, if not all, find it so challenging whenever we do confront any obstacles.
We cannot even foresee about what will happen to us, whether we will be killed or not isn't known yet, but that's the reason why we people have to prepare well, so we will be strong enough to tackle those snags whenever we run into them.
1. Start imagining of them
Have you ever thought of death? Your death?
Well, I might say not everyone. It sounds stupid, or we can say it may bring bad luck to some cultures to even think about this, but it is more significant than what you have thought of it. When we think about it, then we might know something about it, for instance, you feel about yourself dying by a traffic accident, then you might be well-prepared for it like be more cautious while you are traveling to anywhere, so this tip helps a lot.
2. Remind yourself that you are STRONG
What is it like to be strong?
Won't you die? Won't you get hurt?
Of course, no. Being powerful makes you strong, and when you are strong, you can escape from problems as well. Like telling yourself you are strong, brave or motivate yourself, then when you face any handicaps, you won't be a coward or a weak person. For example, you fall from your motor while you are on the road, if you are uncertain, or not well-prepared then you may feel hurt, or you might even cry there, but if you train yourself thoroughly, then you are already active in your mind. So you can get up quickly even though you are severely injured. As you know, on the road, if you are falling, there might be many cars coming behind you, so what if they might kill you accidentally? So remind yourself to be a stronger one
3. Think of solutions
Be well-prepared, you don't know what will happen, so why not just think of what will happen and find the answers to solve those?
Start thinking of what you can do to address problems that usually occur, like a blaze.
Imagine if your house is on fire, what will you do?
Ask yourself, and then you might come up with any ideas to work it out when it takes place suddenly.
If you are not well-prepared, you might be crying in your room, not knowing what to do.
ReggieLY
Have you asked yourself this question?
Most of us, if not all, find it so challenging whenever we do confront any obstacles.
We cannot even foresee about what will happen to us, whether we will be killed or not isn't known yet, but that's the reason why we people have to prepare well, so we will be strong enough to tackle those snags whenever we run into them.
1. Start imagining of them
Have you ever thought of death? Your death?
Well, I might say not everyone. It sounds stupid, or we can say it may bring bad luck to some cultures to even think about this, but it is more significant than what you have thought of it. When we think about it, then we might know something about it, for instance, you feel about yourself dying by a traffic accident, then you might be well-prepared for it like be more cautious while you are traveling to anywhere, so this tip helps a lot.
2. Remind yourself that you are STRONG
What is it like to be strong?
Won't you die? Won't you get hurt?
Of course, no. Being powerful makes you strong, and when you are strong, you can escape from problems as well. Like telling yourself you are strong, brave or motivate yourself, then when you face any handicaps, you won't be a coward or a weak person. For example, you fall from your motor while you are on the road, if you are uncertain, or not well-prepared then you may feel hurt, or you might even cry there, but if you train yourself thoroughly, then you are already active in your mind. So you can get up quickly even though you are severely injured. As you know, on the road, if you are falling, there might be many cars coming behind you, so what if they might kill you accidentally? So remind yourself to be a stronger one
3. Think of solutions
Be well-prepared, you don't know what will happen, so why not just think of what will happen and find the answers to solve those?
Start thinking of what you can do to address problems that usually occur, like a blaze.
Imagine if your house is on fire, what will you do?
Ask yourself, and then you might come up with any ideas to work it out when it takes place suddenly.
If you are not well-prepared, you might be crying in your room, not knowing what to do.
Be brave and strong!
Being a coward won't help you, BE YOU, YOUR STRONG YOU
Being a coward won't help you, BE YOU, YOUR STRONG YOU
ReggieLY
Sunday, 19 May 2019
How to cut down stress ?
Stress makes us sad. Stress can lead to depression because the word DEPRESSION comes from the word depressed, which means sad, and sadness can cause many deteriorate consequences. Everyone experiences it almost everyday, and sometimes, we people do suffer a lot too. Here are some tips, whether it’s the most effective or not, might help you as well.
1. Exercise
As you know, not only does exercise help you maintain your good conditions, but it also makes you reduce stress. Stress is seen to occur when one is unhappy, hopeless and many other factors like thinking too much or losing something significant in one’s life. So exercise is a good choice. When exercise, people won’t have much time to think of problems that are happening to them, or about something they did inaccurately, so it is accommodating to do exercise like cycling, running, swimming or even walking.
2. Reading
Book is just a big object, formed by many papers, but book is not as just simple as the word
B-O-O-K, which is easily written. Book contains many theory, perspectives, knowledge, and many keys to understand about almost everything. Reading helps you be your happy you, open your happiness life, and it does make your life better. While you’re reading, you tend to fall into its greatness, not able to feel bored or stressful. Start reading now
3. Doing what you love
Stress can be created by forcing yourself to do what you’re not fond of. So to prevent it, start doing what you are interested in. For example: you love singing, but you’re forced to train martial art, then you have to reconsider about it. If you can’t stand with it, then don’t push yourself to do so.
4. Being with positive people
Friends or colleagues can make your day. If they’re positive, you’re likely to be as buoyant as they are. But if they are people who talk behind others or are pessimistic, then you’re too. Start staying with generous, gregarious, helpful and positive people.
Are you ready to have a greater life ? It’s your life, don’t make it so complicated. Don’t depend on others. Start living your life as awesome as you are.
Here is one of my quotes, which I use to motivate myself when I’m lost.
“I’m the best, not to be compared to the rest, but the best of myself.”
Reggie
1. Exercise
As you know, not only does exercise help you maintain your good conditions, but it also makes you reduce stress. Stress is seen to occur when one is unhappy, hopeless and many other factors like thinking too much or losing something significant in one’s life. So exercise is a good choice. When exercise, people won’t have much time to think of problems that are happening to them, or about something they did inaccurately, so it is accommodating to do exercise like cycling, running, swimming or even walking.
2. Reading
Book is just a big object, formed by many papers, but book is not as just simple as the word
B-O-O-K, which is easily written. Book contains many theory, perspectives, knowledge, and many keys to understand about almost everything. Reading helps you be your happy you, open your happiness life, and it does make your life better. While you’re reading, you tend to fall into its greatness, not able to feel bored or stressful. Start reading now
3. Doing what you love
Stress can be created by forcing yourself to do what you’re not fond of. So to prevent it, start doing what you are interested in. For example: you love singing, but you’re forced to train martial art, then you have to reconsider about it. If you can’t stand with it, then don’t push yourself to do so.
4. Being with positive people
Friends or colleagues can make your day. If they’re positive, you’re likely to be as buoyant as they are. But if they are people who talk behind others or are pessimistic, then you’re too. Start staying with generous, gregarious, helpful and positive people.
Are you ready to have a greater life ? It’s your life, don’t make it so complicated. Don’t depend on others. Start living your life as awesome as you are.
Here is one of my quotes, which I use to motivate myself when I’m lost.
“I’m the best, not to be compared to the rest, but the best of myself.”
Reggie
Tuesday, 14 May 2019
How to start a good day?
Morning can be the hardest and the most boring time because we are distracted by our alarms, if not all, some people haven’t had enough sleep, but are awoken by their parents or their morning classes. Here are some solutions that can help you have a better morning :
1. Firstly, I recommend you to set a beautiful tone or songs as your alarm sound. As you know, there are many sorts of sound, and each makes us feel differently. Some songs or tone make us feel fresh, but some are a bit aggressive, which can make us feel angry or unhappy, so choose your morning alarm wisely before deciding to set.
2. Secondly, I suggest that you set your own plan or goals the night before. As you know, sometimes, we really don’t want to get out of bed since we don’t really know what we have to do, but with the help of plan or goals, we surely can get up quickly because of knowing our duties.
We people tend to be lazy because our laziness allows us to make many excuses, but our plan can be more powerful that can push and motivate us to start our day wisely and energetically.
3. Thirdly, open your eyes as big as you can, and smile.
Are you here to know how to get up happily ? Are you here to find out the tip to have a better morning? Then yes, SMILE is your solution. If you start your day by feeling negative or pessimistic, then the rest of your day is gonna be the same, but with a simple smile and positive mood can make your day greater and better. It costs nothing to just smile and think positively towards yourself and the others after getting up.
1. Firstly, I recommend you to set a beautiful tone or songs as your alarm sound. As you know, there are many sorts of sound, and each makes us feel differently. Some songs or tone make us feel fresh, but some are a bit aggressive, which can make us feel angry or unhappy, so choose your morning alarm wisely before deciding to set.
2. Secondly, I suggest that you set your own plan or goals the night before. As you know, sometimes, we really don’t want to get out of bed since we don’t really know what we have to do, but with the help of plan or goals, we surely can get up quickly because of knowing our duties.
We people tend to be lazy because our laziness allows us to make many excuses, but our plan can be more powerful that can push and motivate us to start our day wisely and energetically.
Are you here to know how to get up happily ? Are you here to find out the tip to have a better morning? Then yes, SMILE is your solution. If you start your day by feeling negative or pessimistic, then the rest of your day is gonna be the same, but with a simple smile and positive mood can make your day greater and better. It costs nothing to just smile and think positively towards yourself and the others after getting up.
Have a great morning! My beloved !
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